How do you know you are not in a healthy relationship? Did you ignore red flags? Have you gone to therapy? Last month marked 8 years of divorce. And over 9 years since finding out I was being cheated on and that it was my neighbor friend he was sneaking around with. I know.....so cliche.
Now,
I’m still working on me. For the most part, self esteem and self worth. I pick the same “type” of guy. The loop continues. I thought I was doing so well until my current relationship. I have realized I have no boundaries. My post years ago said I was good at dating and not relationships.... because I don’t speak up for myself. Hard thing, growth, goals, improvements, etc. This last six to eight months I have been working on me so much. I’ve had set backs, Three steps forward and five steps back as they say.
I’ve joined personal development school, listen to podcasts almost everyday going to work. Meditate as often as I can before bed. Trying to stick to a routine of mental health growth! It’s also self discipline that I’ve lost. I use to be the “mature” young adult. Now I’m the immature old adult. Lol!
Here’s to those of us who are working on ourselves. Stay steady my friends, stumbling is all part of it. 💪🏼 What are your stumbling blocks in a relationship, in growth, in life?
